In dokumentary film which followed her tour Blond Ambition 1990, the meeting of two celebrities in backstage after one of the concerts  has been shown. After Kevin turned back, Madonna put the finger in her throuat shownig that she would like to throw out.

WHen actor saw her reaction, he admitted he was "ashamed" and "humiliated".

But, more then 10 years after the incident, Madonna appolgized to Costneru who came to her concert with his dauughter.

"I went to concert with my daughter three or four years ago. I bought tickets  and went ther. After three sonds, the light turned off and Madonna said: 'I would like to appologize to somebody. I want to appologize to  Kevinu Costneru" said Costner for Los Angeles Time.

"98% of audience didn't know what is she talking about. But, I really appreciate that" actor concluded.